Domus Cornelii is a Patriarchal Master/slave household led by Patriarch Cornelius, inspired by ancient Roman households and the role of the paterfamilias. Founded in 2021, it's not a scene or a fling. It's a close-knit kinky collective built on trust, loyalty, self-development, and commitment.

Patriarch Cornelius is 28, Dutch, and works in IT. He's agnostic, a bit of a geek, and a prepper at heart, someone who wants a life built around self-sufficiency, away from the noise of modern society. The household is currently working a 5000 m² estate with a 1930s house that's been under renovation since 2025 and is mostly finished now. The focus going forward is crops, animals, and planting enough cover around the property for privacy.

The household's goals go beyond today: a sustainable, self-sufficient homestead, eventually leaving the Netherlands for more remote land, helping every member grow, and, longer term, founding an intentional community, maybe even a micronation, built on these same values. At the center of it is living out the household's ideal Master/slave dynamic.

The coat of arms carries a devil-horns emblem, from Cornelius and the Latin Cornu, meaning horn, a key for authority and guardianship, a book marked with a C for the household's handbook and its focus on knowledge, a red hand for authority and protection, and a kneeling, collared woman held by a bear, standing for submission, ownership, and protection. Its motto, inscribed on the crest, is Sic Parvis Magna: greatness from small beginnings.

The Patriarch's last relationship didn't work out, and the household is open to new people again, most centrally a partner or submissive ready to help build something long-term. Trust, loyalty, self-development, and commitment matter more here than fitting some fixed mould.

« Back to the directory